Tom, to a certain extent, you are right. But in the end, I would've never given up on her and I would've easily done without. Upon having time to reflect, I realized that I could've easily changed. A part of the relationship that I focused on so much really was just blinding me to be the best husband I could be. In reality, I am doing fine without any physical intimacy and even thriving. I just wish that she didnt tube a marriage for her own deviant desires.
