Tough Love through a Letter-Advice needed

[Nutty Chick]

So what the heck do I tell him?

Tipper I suggest you don’t tell him anything. Let him tell you what he wants to and you just listen, really listen and validate what you hear him saying. Then go home mull over what he has said and see how you feel.

I am planning on just saying : I am not moving on with anyone else, but I am moving forward and going out and meeting people and having fun with my life. I would like to see us try to reconcile, but I cant force you to want to try. So I am moving forward and focusing on myself.

Too much info.

If he is loving and saying he is just confused then I will tell him to take more time to think about things before making any decisions.

What about you? How long can you stand limbo land? It isn't all up to him. You have choices too.

Good luck with it and remember .. listen more than you talk.

nutty x