do you think this sounds like a guy who is done or confused
Confused, but a bit resolved. Almost trying to convince you that he is making the right choice for everyone. For your D, who he claims is 'better off' without him, for you, you are better off with him. And most definately trying to convince himself! He IS opening up more, which is great. If you want to respond, I would go along seek's path..thanking him for communicating, telling him that this is not what you want, but you will accept it and move on. That sort of stuff.
Hugs, its hard to see them open up, when the opening up involves them justifying their actions.
