My H has finally decided that he can commit to seeing me tonight to talk about our R.
I am scared to death. I have no idea where he stands. He has been kind and loving in his texts to me most of the week and he keeps saying that he is wondering where I stand in all of this.
So what the heck do I tell him? I usually try to avoid R talks and D talks. Now this is the whole reason he wants to get together.
I am planning on just saying : I am not moving on with anyone else, but I am moving forward and going out and meeting people and having fun with my life. I would like to see us try to reconcile, but I cant force you to want to try. So I am moving forward and focusing on myself.
If he says he wants a D, or that we just cant be together, then I will say: I am sorry you feel that way .
My main goal is to be friendly to him and show him happiness. This will not be an easy task. I will try to do a lot of listening and keep the conversation based on small talk and catching up.
If he is loving and saying he is just confused then I will tell him to take more time to think about things before making any decisions.
