One thing I was thinking is that it might be a good idea to send your response as an actual letter instead of email reply. Take the time to get it right and send - if he has a mailing address. It has more gravity that way - if you know what I mean. I think the pause in responding would also be a good thing - contrast that to the running around like a chicken mode.


me: 47
H: 48
he has 2 grown sons
M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd)
hit iceberg 6/07
S 9/26/07
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