And until he actually comes to that realization you have a couple of choices.....
A. Do nothing. Just continue to live your life as it is now, and patiently wait with absolutely no expectations of anything changing.
B. Move out, and get yourself some councelling. Continue to date him, see him, but not live together as a Married couple.
C. Stay at home, and live in the same house with your Husband. GAL and do things to make yourself happy. Treat him as a roomie and accept that is all you have for now, but with the hopes that he will eventually come out of this MLC.
I've been doing option C for years, when is enough enough? How long do we exist on crumbs? Don't get me wrong, I'm all for patience and waiting out MLC and trying to get to the other side of all of this but there has to be a finish somewhere?
If H buys you a horse then he needs ows rent money even more. Do you see that coming?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
