Stronger - but still confused

[Snow White]

So I filled out the legal separation kit. Pretty straight forward. H stopped in to "check on me" after he got off work. Asked him to read it, he said tomorrow. Told him some of the info I put and he got all flustered when I said the house would be sold. He said I thought you were buying out the house. I said I do not think I can afford it. Well you should check into it before you sell it. I said I don't really want to live here anyways, this is not my house it is our house, I really don't even want to live in this town(which I don't) we moved here because this is where all your friends are and this is where you grew up, there is nothing here for me.

I remember awhile back when he would "joke" about all this stuff very early in the process. I think in his mind that he though that he could go do what he wanted and even if we got the separation what would happen is that I would refinance, I would assume the house and everything would still be the same if he decided to return home just some money movement in the background.

I asked him yesterday for the cell phone number of the guy he is claiming to live with and got an immediate Why? I said because I have no way of contacting you if you aren't at work since you smashed your cell phone. What if D and I got in a car accident, I have to wait until you go to work for you to be told? So when he stopped home he said he asked his mother to borrow her cell but it was dead. Then later he called from "the guy's" cell but the number was blocked(not private, not out of area, but blocked) I asked why, oh he has it set up to always block the number..., oh ok what is the number, I don't have it on me. It is becoming more and more likely in my mind that H is living with OW and not his friend.