And she wants to be friends while we go through this mess with what she is asking, can someone out there tell me how to be friends with someone who is trying to take you for everything you have and leave nothing in your wallet at the end of the month. I am having a hard time trying to imagine how I can't have hard feelings for her right now. Any advice please.
Ping, I believe our W's think of friendship as working together for the kids. This is not a friendship IMO. A friend is someone who is there in your darkest hour, a friend is someone who listens and does not judge. Once the L's get involved these sitches go downhill fast. The L's breed fear and contempt in our W's and in us. They make their money splitting us up and don't care about H or W or the kids when it all said and done.
How did you act around your W. Did you backslide last night. I believe you still have a chance Ping I really do. She is expecting to see "the ass" "the old Ping" once those papers hit your hands..
Why not show her the new Ping? Papers don't get the new Ping down. Show her confident, you can handle the papers being left in the mail.
