Internet friendships?

[kolle]

Recap of my goals: This is so I can read it everyday in one place:

--I will not snoop. I will completely detach from what she may be doing or did before. (this includes NOT READING OVER HER SHOULDER (thnx Sandi!!))
--I will not pursue her, seem clingy or needy.
--I will not judge her but support her. I WILL NOT GET INVOLVED IN ARGUMENTS!
--I will casually(!) and HONESTLY compliment W (3 times a day)once a week.
--I will (try to) spend time with W every day to tell her about my day and ask her about hers.
--I will consciously decide every day to love her unconditionally - no matter what.
--GAL with more energy. I need to rejoin a Bible study.
--Do more things around the house for her. I realise that recently I have not cooked and cleaned as often as before.
--I need to spend more time with the kids, collectively and individually.
--I will use DB principles in my relationships with the kids, especially with S16, who is very angry at me.
--I will remind myself every day that the kids are watching me closely in my R with W. Do I really practise what I preach? Their future happiness is at stake.
--I will try to teach my kids the DB principles when they fight among each other and in conflict with their parents.