you guys are the best. i just don't know how to word it to him in a way that is not going to push his negative buttons.

any suggetions??

we've spoken again since this posting. he asked how our d was, what we did, had interest, there's something in his voice of how it was before we sep. he knew i was going out tonight and got a babysiter for my d. he is supposed to pick me up. i don't want any R talk, just 2 go out have fun.


Me 40 H 30
D19 previous marriage, d3 and s10months
H walked out nov 1, 2009
Seperated ever since
filed for d nov 2010, served h 12-22-10