Newbie here needing some advice part 2

[addie]

Ping, of course this hurts and you have every reason to be angry. This is the alien W doing this, not the W you've loved for over 20 years. She is very confused and like GF said above, going on the advice of the L. She's not thinking clearly at all.
Give yourself some time to calm down before you approach her and see what your L says about this before you make any other decisions.

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