Mike, I'm not sure why your W feels she has to lie to you about it either. Doesn't make any sense, maybe she feels she will show whoever that she is the better parent by being proactive and going on and taking the course, who knows. I don't think we have anything like that here in NC.
Either way, I'm glad that you didn't find out what was in your mind yesterday about your W, that would have been hard to deal with.
Hang in there, I know you feel defeated right now and feel lost, I am there with you buddy, we will get through this and life will go on without who these women have become.
