Ping,

Very sorry that you are hurt by the papers, bottom line and mike said it, just paper. As far as the request for settlement, you are right it is laughable. If you look at her and say something like are you serious, you think this is going to heal the wounds then go for it. Don't laugh at her though, people really don't like that, she really is hurting and is just listening to a lawyers advise.

Pity her, don't laugh at her though, but thanks I enjoyed the chuckle from the details as well. I wish you well and keep us posted, focus on you and the kids, their wayward actions and thoughts are their's to face when they are ready. In the end if she really ends up being this person for the rest of her life, one that doesn't value the family and believes she should be taken care of by someone else "who she doesn't want".

Would you really want that person, NO, you want who your wife could be, not who she is right now. My prayers, I will keep up on your sitch.


Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!