Thanks for the reply and the word of encouragement p2d. I have to be upfront here with you all, I don't think I would ever take her back. Then why am I here. Because I feel comfort in knowing that I am not alone in the rejection I am feeling. Many of you have amazing insight and it is helping ME. I loved my wife with all my heart but this incredibly selfish act on her part has totally severed any feelings of love and attraction I had for her. I just think she is making the most ignorant decision a person can make and there is nothing I can do about it. But do I really want her back..... no I don't I am sorry to say. That is really hard for me to say because I have always spouted off how much I hated divorce, but I was never in this position before.
I hope you all do not mind me sticking around and participating even though I do not have it in me to be a real DB'r.
