You know she wants out. You know she is not being truthful. If you still want to work to save your M, then work on it, but how will documentation help you reach that goal? You said a few posts back that you are ready to move on. If you have made that decision, then what purpose does documentation serve in that case?
I know you are hurting and feel like you need and have a right to know what is going on. I did too. My W lied about her A, even when confronted with the truth staring us both in the face. I detailed the evidence I had against her so there was no denying it. She was briefly remorseful but mostly got pissed about my snooping and a little while later moved out. Our D will be final in a month.
you're right.. Thanks for coming in an smacking me up side the head. I'm just pissed right now. Pissed that I'm being lied to about something so stupid....you know, why not tell me she's going to the class..it's court ordered we have to go. Why try to hide it? Lie, then back it up with lies? Holy s**t. I don't understand. I am ready to move on..I have to be ready to move on. Looks like the decision is being made for me. By the way G-thanks for stopping over here. I have read your thread.