Go back and reread your post, read number two. Does that sound right to you? If you were just a friend, would you care when your roommate ate? Would you make sure you had a night with your so called friend/roommate. I don't think so, I'm telling you right now whitelight, they are way more then just friends. And, don't friends meet their friends? Why is she mad, and why doesn't she want to meet you? Because she doesn't think of him as a FRIEND, she loves him. And poor thing he's stringing her along......................ok people, am I the only one that thinks this?
whitelight, there is something very wrong with this picture.
Your right, get your life together, think of yourself, heal, think about what you want and go for it.