Just want to make that clear for others. If my wife or kids were doing something out of character, you better believe that I would take charge to find out the reason for the change and would not sweep it under the rug. Once you know the facts all snooping can end and you can come up with a game plan based on the information you uncovered. You have a right to know the TRUTH. People in affairs will lie through their teeth and we all know it. When they are out of character there is a reason and you should find out for sure what that reason is so you can best deal with it.
Ok, here is the deal. She was followed this morning. She took me to pick up the car, early..I had someone sitting there to tail her when she dropped me off. She dropped me off and left, the person followed her back to her mom's. She dropped my D off at her mom's, went back to the town we had just left after picking up my vehicle..(backtracked 8 miles)..went into a office where they were giving a (court Required) seminar (that we have to take for the Divorce) on how to be an effective co-parent. The seminar was from 9:00-1:00 today. She was seen going into the seminar and she paid to registrar for the course. I passed my MIL in her car with my D early this morning.
I don't know why my W felt like she could not be truthful and tell me that she was doing this. I assume that she thought that me knowing might lead to a disagreement??
She has said through all of this that she does not want to hurt me and maybe she thinks me knowing that she is taking the class will cause me more pain??
Damn..looks like there is no stopping this. She is hell bent on it.
I have snooped, looked, had her followed..there is no evidence of an affair. There is no doubt in my mind..
Looks like she is just done with me. I will go on. I know where the road is leading me. There is only one path. I'm 44, and starting over again. The second time in my life. It is difficult and sad to have to do. It is an overwhelming proposition.
Well...she's back. More lies..I had actually passed her this morning as she was backtracking back to the seminar. She saw me and pulled over because I had left my sunglasses in her car. She gave them to me and I asked her "where u going?" she said to get breakfast, problem is she was going the opposite way..away from restaurants. I also passed my MIL 1 hour after that and MIL had my D.
I asked the W where she got breakfast, she said Hardee's..there's not a Hardee's within 10 miles of where she was. I asked her what else they did..she said watched 2 movies with D, talked..Interior decorator came by there to see her mom..all lies..MIl was in car w/D..did not see a decorator riding shotgun.
W in bed now...She's tired...tired of lieing..guilt must be eating her up.
