Good news: I didn't pick up the rope! No fighting and arguing. I validated as much as possible and listened. We talked!
Bad news: Found out wife has started the D paperwork. She wants space --> Me out of house. She wants kids school nights (166 days) and 50/50. --> 75% Reasons --> no respect over the years and no help.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712