Drowning still - 23 years, feel like I am sinking

[addie]

Hi CBK,
As far as the potential new job goes, I agree with Stella and Sandi. You must decide for yourself whether this would be a good opportunity for you. Would this be a good career move? You said you travel a lot in your current job, so being away 3 nights a week may not be all that different. Right now, in W's current frame of mind you can't rely on her to help you make that decision. Her views would be very clouded.
Weigh the pros and cons and decide what might be best for CBK.