Oh yeah, I remember reading that. That's hard. Have you read "Not Just Friends"? It addresses that.

I live in Alabama. H and I were in TX for about 3 years. His A happened right around the time he was getting out of the Air Force. He filed for D, I got a job here and moved. He couldn't go through with the D and followed me about 4 months later. He lived with OW for about 6 months


Kris