If you are in this post Infidelity then there are 3 people involved. I don't mean to be harsh, but 3 is a crowd. I wish my W was trying as hard as you whatdidido, us guys look at your efforts and wish we had a W willing to try as hard as you. Hopefully our W's will get there someday.

We are all in pain, I really don't want anyone to feel like I do but I know a lot of you out there are in real pain.

I wish my wife would pick me, If she did, I know she would be in pain and I know OM would be in pain, but a decision has to be made, living in limbo is the worse for everyone, I have a hard time trying to be faithful to my wife. I know she isn't faithful to me, its been so long, even a kiss or hug, but I don't get those things, I would like someone to hold, someone to love, it really does hurts and I know most of you hurt too.

God bless you whatdidido, you know my post, you have helped me think, I really don't mean to be harsh. Please come back and post, you don't have to visit my post, but you offer a prospective that is valuable, and I know you are wanted here
by me and everyone else.

(((((( whatdidido))))))))

Jeff from St Louis

M45
W41
M10
D9, D6, D6, S5
2 Dogs, 1 Cat
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
PA confirmed 03/08 and still going ???