Wow, thanks Yoyo.
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I'm getting there, but I'm not quite as laid back as you yet.

Can I show this to my H???...he often says I am uptight, or at least he used to...maybe I have changed, I feel like I have.

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I guess the thing we have to act like is that we are just "dating" our H's and go about our own business. I'm not past the trust issue thing yet, so this is hard.

This is true. I am not past the trust issue thing yet either. I need to read up on your sitch, and I don't know how much you know about mine..but I do think I have it easier than most when it comes to the OW. We both moved so she is about 1000 miles away, so when H is not with me...I know he isn't with her. I do think it makes the times we aren't together much easier.

I did go out with friends last night. I almost just stayed home and did nothing because I was tired but then decided to make myself go out...ended up having a great time.

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Yoyo,

ya keft out the "making out" on the pick up tail gate....

LOL, I think I read about this on your thread yoyo...did you say you were in the south?? Making out on the tail gate DOES sound like a southern thing....where ya from??


Kris