Our situations seem to be very similar. You are handling this so well. I'm getting there, but I'm not quite as laid back as you yet.
My H came over Thursday night and we did yard work together. He stayed a couple of hours after we got finished and told me he wanted to come home but needed to take it slow. He talked about the home improvements he wants to make. An hour after he left he even called me! He is usually in bed by this time so I was very surprised!
I didn't see him last night. He said he was very tired and had a headache and was going to bed early. I took the opportunity to catch up on my rest as well. I've been battling bronchitis and my energy level is still low.
I guess the thing we have to act like is that we are just "dating" our H's and go about our own business. I'm not past the trust issue thing yet, so this is hard.
I hope you were able to go out and have fun with your friends last night. Please fill us in.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I'm getting there, but I'm not quite as laid back as you yet.
Can I show this to my H???...he often says I am uptight, or at least he used to...maybe I have changed, I feel like I have.
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I guess the thing we have to act like is that we are just "dating" our H's and go about our own business. I'm not past the trust issue thing yet, so this is hard.
This is true. I am not past the trust issue thing yet either. I need to read up on your sitch, and I don't know how much you know about mine..but I do think I have it easier than most when it comes to the OW. We both moved so she is about 1000 miles away, so when H is not with me...I know he isn't with her. I do think it makes the times we aren't together much easier.
I did go out with friends last night. I almost just stayed home and did nothing because I was tired but then decided to make myself go out...ended up having a great time.
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Yoyo,
ya keft out the "making out" on the pick up tail gate....
LOL, I think I read about this on your thread yoyo...did you say you were in the south?? Making out on the tail gate DOES sound like a southern thing....where ya from??
Oh yeah, I remember reading that. That's hard. Have you read "Not Just Friends"? It addresses that.
I live in Alabama. H and I were in TX for about 3 years. His A happened right around the time he was getting out of the Air Force. He filed for D, I got a job here and moved. He couldn't go through with the D and followed me about 4 months later. He lived with OW for about 6 months
