Update: Have been really doing the LRT and Detaching for 2 days now and I feel much better. Only problem is that W seems to like the lack of communication and has really stopped telling me what is going on w/ kids..... I am doing all that I can to give her space and freedom and to reduce the stress and tension. I am also trying to show her what it will be like w/o me around. All that I hear or read says that this is the ONLY way to get them back. Had IC meeting and it was ok at best. The C says that WAW is crazy, having an affair and unpredictable. She says that W could flip and come back in 5 minutes or stay out there forever. The A thing seems odd given what I know about schedules and other issues but it is very possible... I think that she wants the A very badly but has not been able to "hook up" yet.
