Okay H, since Sara is in New Orleans this weekend, I'm going to have to take her place and give you some tough love. You have to start talking to her and asking her questions. You have been with her long enough that you should not feel unconfortable about asking her what she is looking up on the computer. I think you missed an oppurtunity to find out what is going on with her physically and emotionally. Communication, Communication!!!
Just remember this whack with a 2x4 (maybe a wet noodle instead) was done because I care about you!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon