Our situations seem to be very similar. You are handling this so well. I'm getting there, but I'm not quite as laid back as you yet.
My H came over Thursday night and we did yard work together. He stayed a couple of hours after we got finished and told me he wanted to come home but needed to take it slow. He talked about the home improvements he wants to make. An hour after he left he even called me! He is usually in bed by this time so I was very surprised!
I didn't see him last night. He said he was very tired and had a headache and was going to bed early. I took the opportunity to catch up on my rest as well. I've been battling bronchitis and my energy level is still low.
I guess the thing we have to act like is that we are just "dating" our H's and go about our own business. I'm not past the trust issue thing yet, so this is hard.
I hope you were able to go out and have fun with your friends last night. Please fill us in.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
