thanks for coming over and yes it is great when you see people with very similar sitches.
Had a night out last night, real gooden with friends and home late. W woke me up early though getting ready and I was going to sleep in, but got up and we went out to a parade as a family. Absolutely brilliant I did, we had a fantastic time, had some lunch out while youngest slept too and W being really nice and we've been joking together a lot. I am so tired and having a kip now as they've all gone to a party but managed to really stay posditive (so hard when so tired) and had the best time.
H said a while back, 'I saw you get jealous when that bloke spoke to me in the shop'...wow, I did, but didn't realise it would be so obvious. Also, what does that mean that she said that ?
I'm still detaching but so tough as with the niceness you really feel like making a play, but I'm not going to and will leave it to her in her time. Got 2 holidays coming up so hopefully they go really well as they are a great opportunity for her to see me 24 hours a day and the new (old) me !!!
I also think my addressing the couple of issues firnly, but calmly then leaving it, might of got her thinking too.
DbD. I'll take a look later, must get some kip while their all out