he doesn't like himslf andthat is why he projects it on me.
That is so true. so when you are nice to him he can't understand it. Give him what he wants - Less Contact. He won’t be able to blame you for his unhappiness then. It is difficult with a child I know that. But you are starting to sound stronger now.
Nutty
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.