Just want to make that clear for others. If my wife or kids were doing something out of character, you better believe that I would take charge to find out the reason for the change and would not sweep it under the rug. Once you know the facts all snooping can end and you can come up with a game plan based on the information you uncovered. You have a right to know the TRUTH. People in affairs will lie through their teeth and we all know it. When they are out of character there is a reason and you should find out for sure what that reason is so you can best deal with it.
