Stronger - but still confused

[Snow White]

Well I did confront him prior to reading any of this. He came here after he got off work to "discuss" He snapped his phone in half when we were arguing while I was driving to his store because he was so anrgy I would not let him get a word in. So the only time he every really said much to me was through text and that will be no more, his cell was the only way to contact him if we "needed" him outside of work hours, the phone is the only daddy my D has every night when she goes to bed.

The denials drive me nuts, he still says OW is "just his friend". I said how can you say that and then you text her 40 times in one day while you are "trying" not to contact her. He said it is about nothing just general conversation. I said you would never text me 40 times (although he has) he said when I text you you don't respond, sometimes I text a number of texts and you don't respond. I told him there is no try it is a decison - like I keep hearing everyone say. I told him that I do not call or text even though I want to really bad, that is a decision it is possible. He said why, why don't you call or text? Why do you try to stay away? I said because I am not pursuing you, you said it was an issue at MC, he said well you can.

I did call the lawyer again when I got home yesterday, she was again not in, left a message to return my call.

Talked to H about legal separation I think he realizes that is becoming the only option. There were some nasty points in the discussion like him saying at one point that he was going on Monday to have his work deposit his cheque into another account so he could save up money. I advised if he thought prior to that that he had no abanndoned his child that the fact that he moved out, gave no forwarding address, now has no contact number and is withdrawling financial support even to community debt did not look very good on him.