Jen, When you talk to him about the bill, try to use questions. Like "I've noticed the bill has gotten higher. How do you think this can be taken care of?"

When H and I separated, I immediately began to separate bills and accounts quickly as I know my H is horrid with finances. This looked to him like I couldn't wait to separate for divorce, I think. It's a really stickly place, isn't it?




M: ten years
BS23, BS17
Step-SS20, SS16, SS14
Separated: August 07