My children do want to have contact with their pending baby brother. They have decided that this kid has too many stricks against him and may someday need their support. The plan is to send baby gifts, Xmas gifts, birthday gift and such directly addressed to him. Maybe someday when he's old enough to make decisions he'll want to get to know them better.
Before a big fall out with my X, my daughter and SIL spent a day with X and new wife (they were on vacation). New wife was already pregnant and had absolutely no interest in getting to know daughter's baby. Didn't want to hold her, didn't want to feed her, had no interest in seeing her room. My daughter commented that new wife was the most nonmaternal pregnant women in history.
Poor kid, his mother doesn't want him, she needs him as a pawn in her chess game!
Anyway, things are good here in sunny California. Rob is a sweetheart, family is well and career is going great. I got my kids, my grandbaby and my three cats who I love. Just wish my heart didn't still feel like swiss cheese!
And yes I love my convertable!! Almost had a heart attack tonight, a piece of wood flew up from the truck in front of me and hit my baby! Luckily only small marks in the paint that Rob can buff out! That was close!
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"It's not what happens to you, it's what you make of it." Zig Ziglar
