Competing Against Fantasy Girl

[Barbara66]

Okay. I made sure that I wasn't home last night when he came to get his rain gear. He left after that for the golf trip. No calls or texts today from him. I plan to be very busy this weekend painting my dining room. If he calls, should I answer so that the boys can talk to their dad? I'm thinking about changing the locks. I owned this house prior to marriage. His name is not on the deed and we have no mortgage. What do you guys think about that? Should I change the locks? He is giving me no money, but does continue to pay the bills (from joint account). He gets very angry when I ask him for money or if I ask him to buy something (like a veggie tray for my sons birthday party last weekend.) He flipped out over me asking him to pick up a veggie tray!! I bought everything else. He makes double what I make annually. Ironically, I'm the one with the college degree.