Found ya!! (Wondered why you were so 'quiet' over in the separated forum...cuz you were HERE!)

Wow NikB!
You're doing great! Good job on sharing your feelings and congrats on finding out that you and your H are on the same page.
Happy first date anniversary- cheers! \:\)

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing