Cake eating or progress?

[Trixi]

I would say, let him digest the previous 15 days, and put NO pressure on him at all. He may come to the conclusion that he would like to give things another try.

Agreed. In fact, I won't be too surprised if he pulls back some. (Combo of post vacation blues and his emotional confusion. I hope it doesn't happen, though.)

Even though I had no real inclination of it at the time, my wife said our 3-day trip to Seattle was a turning point. It was 2 weeks later that she asked to come home.

I certainly *hope* our trip has gotten him to thinkin'. We had such a great time; we had the one major disagreement and a few tiffs-- the great thing about the tiffs is that they were diffused within a matter of moments because we each maintained our sense of humor. In the "old days" we would each get too defensive and the tiff would end up being a full blown argument.

We're suppose to get together tomorrow night for dinner and a movie and then "get up early" to go 4-wheeling on Sunday. Very excited about that.

Minker'- do you think your wife would have asked to move home if you hadn't called that dinner the "break up dinner"? (It's so weird that Seattle was a turning point and then she is saying that she doesn't think it's ever going to work out for you guys..and then does a 180 from that.)