Hey Neecy.

I too shed a tear while watching Greys, at that same moment. Your story is so similar to mine. My H texted the OOW 100 times over the course of 3 weeks. All the while "trying" to work on our M. My husband moved out 04/13/08! 2 days after our 16th wedding anniversay. He told me on our anniversary that he decided to move out to "clear his head". My H moved in with his parents (his mother cooks, cleans, does his laundry and makes his bed for him) I should be thankful that he continues to go to counseling. We have our second counseling session (together) on Tuesday. We have both been going individually.

If you ever want to talk and compare stories feel free to contact me through this site. Good Luck Neecy. I'll include you in my prayers tonight.


Me 41
H 42
T 21 yrs
M 16 yrs
S15, S11
Bomb 1: Not happy 09/06
Bomb 2: Not in Love 02/08
Bomb 3: Admits to EA, poss PA? with OOW 03/24/08
Moved out 04/11/08 (our 16th wedding anniversary)
Go Bills! Go Sabres!