I think this is where I belong.

[peacetoday]

Jay
welcome
this does take time
I too have gotton closer to my kids thru this process
There is noithing that we can do to bring of MLCer spouse around..just time
paractice being positive and upbeat around her
no pressure or judgement
My H is in MLC for 15 months
over this time , we have developed a friendship
he still doesnt want the m though
It takes a long time
take this time to heal and grow/ the rewards are great
there is no where to go anyway
peace