I think you need to share this with your lawyer. When me and my H were in D, we didn't need to do this. And if we had I know my lawyer would have done all the talking and taken control of everything. I'm pretty sure he would never put me in a position that would have weakened my stance in the divorce. I'm surprised yours would consider doing something that could potentially put you in a weak spot. Does she feel this will be helpful? Does she know you don't feel up to this? Make sure you know exactly what she is trying to accomplish in this meeting....
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