Well no court date,lawyers agreed to split tax money.So no allimony or child support will be in settlement.W just wants the money.This is going in to high gear now,probably two months or less till we go to court to sign.Still a little sad about that,but I have to just let her go now.She just isnt slowing down at all.But i will be alright,im doing so much better as the days go by.Getting less and less of the bad days.Been thinking about dating again,but i know im not ready yet.Plus i really dont want to drag OW into the middle of this mess untill it is over.Still keeping up the 180s helping my confidence a lot.Still just wondering where life will take me now,probably be one heck of an adventure-Later Mike


Me:42 W:41 Married 22 seperated12-31-07,served papers 2-29-08 S21-S20 partialy disabled S17
Divorce sighed 10-7-08 final 90 days after