Karen thanks for the support. I do think he is going through MLC as he is doing everything we used to do when we were younger. He is also in honeymoon stage. I regret that I did not confront ow in the beginning, now it is too late.
I agree if he does not wake up sooner, rather than later it will be too late. I don't want to file as i dont want to hand him over on a silver platter but it is getting hard and sometimes I just want to get off this train!
He is not bonding with his d and the first 3 years are vital, after that it is difficult. She is great and he is missing out on her development. He is missing out on something wonderful. I just want to shake him and say wake up, what have you done with my h, come home this game is over..... I am going to confront him on his next visit and ask him what his up to cos his behaviour is screaming that he is up to something (call it woman's intuition).
Hard month, my birthday and our 6th year anniversary (would have been 17years together!)
