I know what you mean about "snapping". I'm in the same frame of mind. Try to calm down. Does H pay for the cell bill? There's really not much you can do, especially if he's the one paying for it. If you confront him in an angry tone, he'll become defensive. You can't control what he's doing especially now that you're S. Try to talk to him calmly if you decide to bring it up.
Good luck with the convo.
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