My Wife dropped the bombshell 4 weeks ago now and basically told me I love you but I am not in love with you and never have been. We have been married 4 years and have so fra hadd a great life toghether. We are still very friendly and talk and laugh but the sexual chemistry is none existent and to be truthful never wsa there in a big way. According to my wife it was never there. I have found out in the last week that she is also having an affair. I have looked through a lot of the posts on this site and I am reading Divorce Remedy as well as taking coaching lessons but really the only question that still remains is - is it possible to create a spark, a connection that was never there?
