Newby after advice

[daybyday]

hey arthur, just read your complete thread. we sound like the same guys. i too had let myself go, weight, grooming, depressed. at least my w snapped me out of that. my sitch is similar except wife isnt going out all the time. she has denied any affair. i trust but have one eye open always. i have gotten some similar advice from sandi aboutnour w's wanting the passion back and would prefer it from us. i believe this too but its a fine line to walk. i went to marriage builders and w and i did needs questionairre, her number 1 need is physical attractiveness. i was about 80lbs morevthan when we first married. i since have lost 45. i have no where to go but up. sandi and others have mention we need to be fun, do more fun things. itd great to hear from others about some ideas to do with w. i dont mean to hijack here, i just naturally gravitate to those with very similar stches. i hope we can share ideas and give support. check out my threads mlc waw just confused and dayby day is hard need support. i will be following your thread and will add my support. i hope you and others will do the same. do smething fun this weekend. gl