I'm feeling upset about a few things other than the ones I mentioned earlier. 1) The potential job and the fact that H even considered taking a position in another city knowing that he'll be away from S11. How can he justify this decision, how can he consider a second move across the country in less than a year? 2) The motorcycle license - just a few weeks ago he was complaining about finances and wanting to move back because of it. Now he's finished his contract, has no other income at the moment but has spent hundreds of $$$ on a motorcycle course and wants to get a motorcycle, is paying for all expenses here and the place he's renting. He's totally f**ed up. Luckily we have separate accounts. I'm not bailing him out of this. I guess he can cash out other assets if he wants to. I think it's a culmination of everything that has gotten me feeling this way. I agree that I should have a convo with H. He can't just come and go as he pleases. I've allowed it to happen but now boundaries have to be enforced. He called me this morning but I didn't pick up or call back. I have to let go of some of these negative feelings before I talk to him.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
