thanks all. it just sucks. it all sucks. but little by little, will get this done.
as far as I know h hasn't found a mediator yet. I'm printing off info from the mediator a friend recommended last fall. he's a bit of a drive so I was hoping for someone closer, but maybe we'll just go with him.
just getting ducks in a row. part of me is crying and sad and having a hard time breathing as I go thru all the questions, but part of me knows there is no choice. no blinking or twitching of noses to make it go faster. and as much as none of this is what I want, god, its time, isn't it? its time. he's been gone since last june...almost a full year now.
there is so much work involved with gathering the info and paperwork, part of me still thinks I should make him do all of it. but at the same time, at least this way I know its done right. some of it he is going to have to provide, but a lot of it I can gather since I am here at the house. and at this point he still needs to make the appt and such. god, he has to do something to get this divorce he wants, right? it just sucks. sucks sucks sucks. but my life will be good. it will. no matter what.
Last edited by SallyM; 05/02/0809:20 PM.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
