I am so sorry that this piecing stuff is so tough...You are a wonderful woman and I do agree very much with Lin, that at this moment your H is not quite ready to 'see' things.
Be patient sweety..I have a good feeling about you two ...
Take care ((((((hugs))))))
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus