Cinders, you have had comments from two wonderful, insightful people (fig and Jack). I echo their remarks and say that your family is so blessed to have you. You constantly put your family first and it will not go unrewarded.
Fig, awesome example of Solomon!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God