Yes, I have tried on several occassions to kick him out. I have put all his clothes in brown paper bags on the porch with a note saying "goodbye." He just unlocks the doors and says "you can't legally kick me out. My name is on the mortage." He has spoken to a lawyer at some point who told him that unless I am being physically abused, I have no right to make him leave. I guess I could lie to the police and say that he is abusing me, but I really don't want to be a liar at all in any of this. I looked into abandonment, and that says that he has to be gone for 1 full year.
Before he knew this information, I did kick him out. I took his keys from him and made him leave. I was stupid and took him back in because he was crying and saying that he loved me and wanted to work things out. But I know that freaked him out though that I kicked him out. And if there was any way I could do it again, that would freak him out again.
This is just all so much more than I can handle right now. I feel so overwhelmed. I just want to go home and cry. I have been holding in tears all day. However, I have plans to meet my mom to exercise and then a guitar lesson after that, so I will have to wait until later this evening before I can have my cry.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
