Addie,

I think I would set boundaries on staying over - which may be difficult. He should just not assume the door is always open for him to come and go as he pleases. This is just my opinion, but I do think he is getting the best of his worlds right now.

Be strong, composed and really think what YOU want to happen.

CBK


M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09