I've been struggling with feelings of anger and resentment over the last couple of weeks. I feel I need to talk to H about establishing boundaries but don't know how to bring it up without sounding resentful.
Addie, once again we feel in unison :). I was slipping into the blue moods as well! I wonder if it's happening because of all the positives we were getting lately. I feel drained, resentful, you name it, I want something to happen NOW. Then I go and reread the MLC 6 stages. Our Hs are classic MLCers, there is no doubt about it. And MLCers are not to be rushed, scorned and/or given ultimatums. It takes as long as it takes.
I really don't know what advice to give, as I'm in the same stage and in the same mood. One thing I'm sure of, though: you are NOT a doormat, Addie! Everything you do sounds so right to me.
Sorry, I wasn't much help. Let me sleep on it, may be tomorrow I will come up with some brilliant idea .
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